A Christian is happy in God. Are you?

 

Wesley's teaching on happiness

 

Odilon Massolar Chaves

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Odilon Massolar Chaves is a retired Methodist pastor, with a doctorate in Theology and History from the Methodist University of São Paulo.

Son of Rev. Adherico Ribeiro Chaves and Roza Massolar Chaves.

He is married to RoseMary.

He has two daughters: Liliana and Luciana.

His thesis dealt with the Methodist revival in England in the eighteenth century and its contribution as a paradigm for our days.

 

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Table of Contents

 

 

·       Introduction

·       Preserved from seeking happiness in any creature

·       Source of Happiness

·       Eternal happiness

·       The world has never made anyone happy

·       Happy are those who suffer for being successful

·       I know that pain or grief does not interrupt your happiness; But doesn't that diminish?

·       If You Are Moved to Seek Happiness in Christ

·       Determined to seek her happiness in Him

·    If you seek happiness in anything other than Him, you must be disappointed

·       Firm determination to despise all creatures' dreams of happiness

·       You're always happy, always more or less liking God

·       To seek happiness in this or that creature

·       Which harms both your holiness and your happiness

·       But it did not diminish his happiness that he did not achieve this desire

·       The sea of love is enough

·       May all the sources of your happiness be in Him

·       Your joy is yet to come

·       But within a few months that impression of happiness disappeared

·       By taking away your expectation of worldly happiness

·       Only in God, will never be disappointed

·       The world has never made anyone happy

·       Not seeking happiness in marriage

·       To feel happiness here and in the hereafter

 

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Introduction

 

"A Christian is happy in God. Are you?" is a book based especially on Wesley's letters to Methodist leaders from which we take sentences, paragraphs and even a whole letter to build this study on Wesley's teaching on happiness.

"John Wesley's teaching on happiness states that true happiness is inseparable from holiness and can only be found in God. Unlike the common thought that religion serves to nullify pleasure, Wesley argued that the human being was created specifically to be happy, and that the authentic Christian faith is the only real way to achieve this state."[1]

A phrase that Wesley used to say in his letters is "I am happy".

He once wrote: "A Christian is happy in God. Are you?"

The Christian's happiness is not restricted to eternity. "Wesley fought the idea that the Christian must suffer without joy in the world to be happy only in the hereafter. He said: "Many think they will be happy with God in heaven, but being happy with God on earth has never entered their thoughts."[2]

To be holy is necessarily to be happy. For Wesley, there is no division between being holy and being happy. He wrote that true religion is, in essence, "holiness and happiness" together. [3]

Wesley learned from the Moravian Peter Bohler about the happiness that comes from true faith: "... surprised me more and more with the explanation he gave me of the fruits of living faith, the holiness and happiness which he claimed attended such faith."[4]

There is eternal happiness. "Wesley describes the love of God poured into our hearts like heavenly treasure in an earthen vessel. ' That treasure produces our lasting happiness."[5]

Wesley was always interested in people's happiness.  Writing to Hannah Ball on April 13, 1785, he said: "... I am certainly as interested in your happiness now as I was ten years ago. So use it as a friend my dear sister."

And on January 22, 1791, Wesley wrote to Thomas Greathead: "Wishing you and yours every happiness." 

An important theme for our days.

 

The Author

 

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Preserved from seeking happiness in any creature

 

It is a great blessing that in your years you are preserved from seeking happiness in any creature. You don't need to, because Christ is yours. O cling to Him with all your heart

 

To Elizabeth Briggs

CHESTER, March 17, 1771.

MY DEAR BETSY,-- You do well to break this unnecessary fear. Love me more, and fear me less; then you will taste,

Love, like the grave, makes all distinctions vain. ['Love, like death, has destroyed everything.' See Poetical Works of J. and C. Wesley, i. 362; also letter of February 15, 1769.] You have great reason to praise the One who has already done great things for you. What you want now is to come boldly to the throne of grace, so that the hunger and thirst for the full image, which God has given you, will be satisfied. Total salvation is near, even at the door. Just believe, and it's yours. It is a great blessing that in your years you are preserved from seeking happiness in any creature. You don't need to, because Christ is yours. O cling to Him with all your heart--I am, my dear Betsy,

With affection. [6]

 

 Source of Happiness

 

'I should be what! desire., (...). 'May you see all your Strength to save and 'live in' Source of Happiness!

 

To Mrs. C. M. Now. 29, 1761;

 I DON'T know anything about myself. But I know and feel that GOD is Love. I feel that I love him in some measure, and I long for full conformity to Jesus. My Soul is happy in him, and though I have not what I once thought implied, in the Blessing which has been poured out upon many, yet I have (for which I am not sufficiently grateful) a deeper union with the Fountain of Bliss, a constant sense of his unmerited love, and a frequent knowledge that I am less than the least of all Saints. I am convinced that nothing will separate me from the Lord Jesus. Part of it is my fruit future. In it are the Fountains of Consolation, which live and give much Strength to my Sun. I trust him, and I know whom I trust: Therefore, Life or Death is_ equal. Still working for all the peaceable Fruit of the Spirit. Jesus will bless your attempts to glorify him. He will make you innocent, able to love before Men, and blameless before Goo. Know that the Eye of Earth and Heaven is upon you. Many expect insecurity; More, I trust, I wish you success in the name of the Lord: I am sure you do, and so I write without reservation. Pay attention to your own — misunderstanding. Don't be put off by thinking about it, but with Humiliation, that you didn't make better use of it. Excuse this freedom: The reason is love without pretending. I find the Fruit of the Cross even as I write. I fit under the Shadow of my beloved, and I feel Him sustaining my Soul. O Jesus, great is your Wow! Great is your Mercy! Even for the baddest, for me. Bless, 'I beseech you, Sister of my Spirit. May she "go before the above joys: Feel always the love of your Savior." I feel my insufficiency to talk about the Goodness of GOD. It's more than I can express. He treats me with delicacy, and if I follow the best standard, I will be patient with everyone. I have felt a lot of bodily Weakness, but no Power to justify its Change or Continuity. It seems that I enjoy as much as I want, while pursuing what I have not achieved. Every day I get more sensible about how small I am. I don't think ever has a soul so deeply desired a complete Saviour. I took the first opportunity to write, hoping to profit from his An. I want to know the most effective way * Way to grow in Grace (...) how to make good use of the Monotony that often invades my mind and makes my soul stupidly inactive. _-I want to be all Attention to GOD; to have the whole Faculty of my Mind fixedly waiting for him (...). I often seem to stand firm in the Lord, and look obstinately to him z, but (I object, through Lack of Vigilance) I often lose *the deep Awareness," that "GOD is here:" however, it does not fuse me; but I detest myself, as I squeeze gracefully. My heart cries out without a voice, "Come and mold Your passive clay. Keep my attention properly exercised at every moment." And as I call, my Jesus answers. - Oh, if I 'prayed without fainting?' I should be what! desire., (...). 'May you see all your Strength to save and 'live in' Source of Happiness! [7]

 

Eternal happiness

 

There is a great difference between this religious scheme and the one we form for ourselves when we begin to desire eternal happiness

 

To Mrs. M. M;

August 29, 1757.

 Rejoice deeply to find that you are convinced of a very important but self-deprecating truth, that you yourself are utterly incapable of Accomplishing your own Salvation, or of forming even a good Thought, or. a desire towards her. Do not rest in this Conviction, but seek, ask, knock at the door: And you will surely obtain that Faith which is the Gift of GOD.

Let me reaffirm that Religion consists, first, in a true Knowledge of our Christlessness: Second, in knowing that he is not only the Saviour of the World, but our Saviour in particular; to know that he died for us, so that we could live through him.

There is a great difference between this religious scheme and the one we form for ourselves when we begin to desire eternal happiness. So I thought I should abstain from all Words and be constant in the Church. And I certainly should go to Heaven, though—I didn't walk narrowly, but very cold. I did not see that Christ alone was the Way to Heaven; but though I could not help seeing that my works were unsafe, yet I expected God to accept this patched obedience, and to furnish what was needed. Be careful not to get your hopes up. It is a Deep Sand (...) but seek Forgiveness and Acceptance with GOD, through Him Who is the Rock of Ages. Let him not go until he blesses you (...)".

 Do you not think me cruel, that I may rejoice to see you under the Cross? Do I believe that both of our souls would be there, if the strong wind did not arise? blow the dust off our branches. When this happens, how salutary is the Rain of Grace, how refreshing the Rays of Love! I am convinced that there is not a single Tree of the Lord's planting, but it must be purged so that it can bring dirt.

(...) No cross, no suffering. I refuse: Only that all my heart is yours? This has been recorded in the courts above, the conclusion is answered as we are able to bear it. Look not so much at the Judgment, but at the Grace that keeps you from [art-art] underneath it. You may be greatly oppressed: But Omnipotence will compromise for you. The Enemy may attack you to fall: But ask for his help as he will, and he will deliver you (...).

This he sits like a refiner's fire. Fire, and like Fuller's soap in the souls of his people. I feel Jesus near; He is better for me than I could ask or think. May your spirit meet you near this hour, and until the end of your war!" [8]

 

 

The world has never made anyone happy

 

Now is the time to choose that better part that will never be taken away from you. Now is the time to choose whether you will seek happiness in God or in the world. The world has never made anyone happy, and it is certain that it never will. But God will

 

For Ms. Barton

LONDON, July 5, 1783.

MY DEAR SISTER, -- Last month I made a short trip to Holland, from which I returned yesterday. [He arrived in London about eleven o'clock on the evening of Friday, July 4. For the visit, see Diary, vi. 416-30.] There is a blessed work in The Hague, Amsterdam, Utrecht, and many other major cities; and in their simplicity of spirit and simplicity of dress, the believers compete with the old English Methodists. In affection, they are inferior to no one. It was with extreme difficulty that we managed to get rid of them.

I am glad to hear such a good account from my two little maids. [Mrs. Barton's daughters (see letter of November 6). He was there in May, 1782.] I found a lot of love for them when I was in Beverley. Now is the time to choose that better part that will never be taken away from you. Now is the time to choose whether you will seek happiness in God or in the world. The world has never made anyone happy, and it is certain that it never will. But God wills it. He says,—

Love will obtain from me returns of love;

And none who seeks Me early seeks in vain.

-- I am, with love to Brother Barton, [9]

 

 

Happy are those who suffer for being successful

 

Happy are those who suffer for being successful! I was almost afraid that all men would speak well of you. Do you not feel interruption of your happiness in him?

 

To Hester Ann Roe

BRISTOL, September 16, 1776.

MY DEAREST HETTY,-- As I did not receive yours of August 28 before my return from Cornwall, I began to be a little apprehensive for fear of your love going cold. But you have kindly dispelled all my apprehensions of this kind, and I know you remain the same.

The happy change caused both in Miss Helena and S. Peggy Roe and Miss S. Bradock can encourage you to take every opportunity to speak a word for a good DM. Sometimes you see fruit present. But if not, your work is not lost; it may arise after many days.' I hope that, although your cousins are judged, they will not be discouraged; Then all these things will "work together for good." Probably, if they stand firm, religion will soon relieve the whole family. But they will need a lot of patience and kindness, as well as a lot of determination. If any particular place is proposed for their residence, you would do well to let me know immediately. They must not abruptly refuse to go; but it would be a matter of prayer and consideration. Kingswood boarders pay twenty pounds a year. There is no money for down payment or additional expense of any kind. The teachers are men of common sense, erudition and piety. Everyone is a family of love.

I am not sorry that you have received a little blame in the case; and I hope it wasn't undeserved. Happy are those who suffer for being successful! I was almost afraid that all men would speak well of you. Do you not feel interruption of your happiness in him? He 'tells you to sleep yourself' What do you usually dream about? Do you never find any low spirits? Is there ever time that hangs over your hands? How is your health? Are you totally free of the cough and pain on your side? You see how curious I am, because everything that concerns you almost interests me. I once thought that I could not know anyone well until many years had passed. And yet I know her as well as if I had known her since childhood. Push away that thought: 'I won't have you for long.' May our Lord take care of it. Let's seize the day. Now you are my comfort and joy! And I hope it will be much longer than this little period of life, my dear Hetty,

Your fondly tender. [10]

 

 

I know that pain or grief does not interrupt your happiness; But doesn't that diminish?

 

I know that pain or grief does not interrupt your happiness; But doesn't that diminish? You often feel sadness for your friends; Did this sadness faster than depress his soul? Does it sink you deeper into God? Move forward in the strength of the Lord.

 

To Hester Ann Roe

BRISTOL, October 6, 1776.

MY DEAR HETTY,--Tomorrow I will leave for London; in and near them, if God wills to continue my life, I will remain until spring. The trials which a gracious Providence sends may be precious means of growing in grace, and particularly of increasing in faith, patience, and resignation; and are not all chosen for us by Infinite Wisdom and Goodness So that we may well subscribe to these beautiful lines,--

With a patient mind, his duty runs;

God does nothing, nor does He allow it to be done,

But you'd do it to yourself if you could see

The end of all events, just like Him.

Everything we can do for a parent we should do—that is, everything we can do without killing ourselves. But we have no right to do that. Our lives are not at our disposal. Remember this, my dear Hetty, and do not take a good principle too far. Do you still think that

Labor is rest, and pain is sweet,

When You, my God, are here

I know that pain or grief does not interrupt your happiness; But doesn't that diminish? You often feel sadness for your friends; Did this sadness faster than depress his soul? Does it sink you deeper into God? Move forward in the strength of the Lord. Be careful for nothing. Live today. Then you will still be a comfort to, my dear Hetty,

You always affectionate. [11]

 

 

If You Are Moved to Seek Happiness in Christ

 

Oh, so that you are as dead to the world as you are now! I apprehend the greatest danger on that side. If you were induced to seek happiness in Christ, how soon would your good desires disappear! Especially if you yield to the temptation to which your person, your youth, and your fortune will not fail to expose.

 

To Lady Maxwell

MANCHESTER, July 1764.

MY DEAREST MALADY,-- Until I had the pleasure of receiving yours, I almost doubted whether you would think it worth writing or not. So much the more I rejoiced when this doubt was removed, and in such a pleasant way. I can't help but think of you often: I seem to see you alone for myself, panting for God, under the heavy pressure of the weakness and fainting of the body, faint from your dearest relatives, convinced that you are a sinner, a debtor who has nothing to pay, and ready to cry out, Jesu, I have now lost everything,  Let me fall upon Thy bosom. Amen, Lord Jesus! Speak; for Your servant hears! Speak Yourself in her heart! Raise your hanging hands and fragile knees. May she see Thee full of grace and truth, and make her rejoice with the light of Thy face.

Do not stop, my dear Lady, for a moment 'because you have not felt sorrow enough.' Your friend above has felt this enough for you. O Lamb of God, it has always been pain, it has always been love like Yours! Look, look to Him, and be saved! He is not a distant God; Now he hovers over you with eyes of tenderness and love! Just believe! Then He turns his weight into joy. Don't think that you're not humble enough, you're not sorry enough, you're not sincere enough. You are nothing; but Christ is all, and He is yours. The Lord God write it on your heart, and take you as God's dwelling place by the Spirit.

Oh, so that you are as dead to the world as you are now! I apprehend the greatest danger on that side. If you were induced to seek happiness in Christ, how soon would your good desires disappear! Especially if you yield to the temptation to which your person, your youth, and your fortune will not fail to expose. If you escape this trap, I trust that you will be a true Christian, having both the power and the form of religion. I hope that in this way you will have equally better health and spirit; Maybe tomorrow. But oh, take Christ today! I long to have you happy in Him! Surely few desire your happiness more sincerely than, my dear Lady, your Lordship's most affectionate servant. [12]

 

Determined to seek her happiness in Him

 

Are you not still determined to seek your happiness in Him, and to dedicate to God all that you have and all that is? Is it not your desire to be wholly surrendered to Him and to glorify Him with your body and spirit? Follow in His name and in the power of His power! Through Him you will be more than a conqueror

 

To Lady Maxwell

CASTLEBAR, May 7, 1767.

MY DEAREST MALADY,-- Your silence is not enough. I won't believe you're tired of my mail unless I have it under your own hand. But when I haven't heard from you in six or eight weeks, I start to be filled with fear. I'm afraid you're dead; or that you are extremely ill, you cannot write; or that your affection is cold, perhaps for me, perhaps for the One who loves you a thousand times better than I do. It's up to you to give a point to my fears, to show me that you're still the same, only more and more determined, despite all temptations, to move forward as best you can.

I did not know whether it was proper to ask any question about the judgment from which you said God had delivered you, for there are things of such a delicate nature that one hardly knows how to put them on paper. Otherwise, I don't think there's anything you can't mention to me, as I believe no one cares about your happiness anymore. Did you find a return from the proof you mentioned? Still, the God you serve can deliver you. In fact, it does not surprise me that things make a deep impression on such a tender spirit. But still, is not his grace sufficient for you, and is not his strength perfect in your weakness? Are you not still determined to seek your happiness in him, and to dedicate to God all that he has and all that is? Is it not your desire to be wholly surrendered to Him and to glorify Him with your body and spirit? Follow in His name and in the power of His power! Through Him you will be more than a conqueror. Often He rebuked and corrected you; but He did not put you to death, and never will. 'Thou shalt not die, but shalt live, and declare the loving-kindness of the Lord.'

I hope to receive a particular report on his health and his current situation in all respects. Do I need to have any reservations between us? Can't you talk to me in all simplicity? May the peace and love of God fill and govern your heart-- I am, my dear Lady,

Your most affectionate servant. [13]

 

If you seek happiness in anything other than Him, you must be disappointed

 

You know that only God can satisfy your soul, whether on earth or in heaven. Hold fast to Him with full purpose of heart. If you seek happiness in anything other than Him, you must be disappointed. I hope you find satisfaction in some of your fellow Christians

 

To Frances Godfrey

LEEDS, August 2, 1789.

It gives me pleasure, my dear Fanny, to know that you are still in good shape. Still insist on the goal, the prize of God's high calling in Christ Jesus. From what you have experienced, you know that there is a happiness in the earth below and in the sky above. You know that only God can satisfy your soul, whether on earth or in heaven. Hold fast to Him with full purpose of heart. If you seek happiness in anything other than Him, you must be disappointed. I hope you find satisfaction in some of your fellow Christians. It is a blessing to have traveling companions to the New Jerusalem. If you do not find any, you must do them; for no one can walk this path alone. [Compare counsel with Wesley; 'Lord, you must serve God and go to heaven. Remember, you cannot serve Him alone; therefore you must find companions or make them: the Bible knows nothing about solitary religion.' See Wesley of Telford, p. 147.] Then work to help each other to be fully Christlike. Wishing you both physical and mental health, I am, my dear Fanny,

With affection. [14]

 

Firm determination to despise all creatures' dreams of happiness

 

 Youth is the season of many of the most dangerous temptations that relate to human nature. But, in fact, you are preserved from many of these by your firm determination to despise all creatures' dreams of happiness and to give your heart to the one who is worthy

 

To Elizabeth Ritchie

DONCASTER, July 15, 1776.

MY DEAR BETSY,--I suppose you wait for my writing first. No, I hope that is the case; otherwise, I'd be afraid you've gotten sick again. How is your health. And how is your mind You find a communion as close and constant with God as ever. You are always happy. No circumstance interrupts or weakens your prayerful spirit. You don't feel anything contrary to resignation You can say with all your heart--

Determined all Your will to obey,

Thy blessings I restore;

Give, Lord, or take away Your gifts,

I praise you forever.

Our Lord's word to you is, 'Feed my lambs.' It seems to me that I see you giving yourself, as much as possible, to this blessed work; carrying the weak, as it were, in his breast, and gently leading the rest into the waters of comfort. Meanwhile, your own soul will enjoy a well of water springing up to eternal life. If you encounter any perplexing temptations on your way, don't hesitate to let me know. Youth is the season of many of the most dangerous temptations that relate to human nature. But, indeed, you are preserved from many of these by your firm determination to despise all creatures' dreams of happiness, and to give your heart to him who is worthy. And believe me to stay

With affection. [15]

 

 

You're always happy, always more or less liking God

 

You pray endlessly; Your heart rises, whatever your hands are occupied; You rejoice forever You are always happy, always more or less liking God; You never worry, never grieve so much as to interrupt your happiness; You never encounter discouragement. Do you have the capacity to be thankful at all?

 

For Ms. Pywell

 

NEAR LONDON, JANUARY 22, 1772.

MY DEAR SISTER,-- You have given me a clear and satisfactory answer to the questions I have proposed, and I rejoice for you by the grace of God that is in you. May He increase more and more! How I must rejoice to see you and talk to you, especially on these subjects! I hope this will be in the spring; but before that you can tell me,-- You are always conscious of God's presence, It is not this feeling interrupted by company or the rush of business. You pray endlessly, Your heart rises, whatever your hands are occupied. You rejoice forever. You are always happy, always more or less liking God. You never worry, never grieve so much that you interrupt your happiness. You never encounter discouragement. Do you have the capacity to be thankful at all? I ask a lot of questions, because I want you to write freely, and especially to dear Sally,

Your affectionate brother.

To Mrs. Sarah Pywell, at Mr. Wilson's house, in Stenton. Be dropped off at the White Lion in Derby. [16]

 

 

To seek happiness in this or that creature

 

You may encounter and indeed expect countless temptations, even to seek happiness in this or that creature. But is every dart of fire repelled, so that it has no place in you

 

To Ann Bolton

 

LONDONDERRY, May 27, 1772.

Do you find as much interior life as ever a close and constant communion with God? Do you rejoice forever? In what sense do you pray without ceasing? Is your peace constant and unshakable? Nothing disturbs you? Do you not feel anger, or pride, or self-will contrary to God's will? Do you not feel an inclination to retreat into your heart? You may encounter and indeed expect countless temptations, even to seek happiness in this or that creature. But it will be that every dart of fire is repelled, so that it has no place in you.

As to your question, it is only (in other words), Is there sin in a believer, or, Are we not sanctified for all time when we are justified? You have a complete answer to this question, which has baffled so many upright souls, in these two sermons written expressly in the title, The Repentance of Believers and the Sin of Believers. [See Works, v. 144-70.] Read them carefully, and I believe you will not want anything more to confirm your truth. Yet you do well to exhort all who are justified to hold fast all that they have received. And it is certain that they will never need to lose their love, peace, or power until they are fully sanctified.

Your affectionate brother. [17]

 

Which harms both your holiness and your happiness

 

But you are often weary of a bad disease—evil reasoning; which harms both his holiness and his happiness. You want true Christian simplicity, which is in fact the highest wisdom.

 

For Ms. Bennis

ASHBY, July 27, 1770.

DEAR SISTER,-- Will you find in yourself anything but inadequacy? Otherwise, his salvation would be of works, not of grace. But you are often weary of a bad disease—evil reasoning; which harms both his holiness and his happiness. You want true Christian simplicity, which is in fact the highest wisdom. Nothing is clearer, according to the simple biblical account, than sanctification, pure love reigning in the heart and life. And nothing is clearer than the need for this to feel happiness here and in the hereafter. Check all the reasoning on these basic principles, otherwise you will darken your soul a lot; And keep denying yourself, and taking up your cross, until you

Sink to the height of perfection,

The depth of humble love.

If the preachers of the Waterford Circuit had punctually followed the plan I had laid down, the horse would not have been a problem; But the misfortune is that every idiot is wiser than I am. However, at your desire, I will send a second preacher into the circuit after the Conference; But preachers need to change regularly. It would never be well to let a man sit for six months with a small Society; Soon he would preach himself and them as dead as stones. Your alteration of the circuit to accommodate the poor and dead Clonmel I greatly approve, and I hope that Sister L-- [See letter of June 13] will be a blessing to the few present. I rejoice at the happy launch of Sisters P and B--. [Mrs. Bennis told him that they both died triumphant.] Isn't it worth living for?

Still approach the source by simple faith, and take as much as you want; But don't be lazy in

The vineyard of your Lord.--My dear sister,

With affection.

Your affectionate friend and brother. [18]

 

 

But it did not diminish his happiness that he did not achieve this desire

 

In a sense, you desire this, because you desire God to be glorified in all things. But it did not diminish your happiness that you did not achieve this desire if you still had the same degree of communion with God, the same joy in the Holy Spirit, I have never seen you so moved as you seemed that night

 

For Ms. Ryan

LONDON, January 20, 1758.

MY DEAR SISTER,--How did you feel during your late trial? He found no resentment, no remnant of his own will, no desire or desire for things to be different [He was at Kingswood School on January 4.] In a sense, you desire this, because you desire God to be glorified in all things. But it did not diminish your happiness that you did not attain this desire if you still had the same degree of communion with God, the same joy in the Holy Spirit, I never saw you so moved as you seemed that night. His soul was then greatly troubled, and a variety of conflicting passions—love, sorrow, desire, with a kind of despair—were easy to read on his face. And wasn't his heart unbalanced in any way? Wasn't he shaken or disconcerted? Has your soul remained all the time quietly in God, waiting for Him without distraction? Perhaps one extreme of this coming test would be to give you a deeper knowledge of yourself and of God, of the power of His salvation, and of the salvation He has brought in you.

Most of the challenges you've faced recently have been of another kind; But it is convenient for you to go through a report of both the evil and the good. Talking to you, whether speaking or writing, is an indescribable blessing to me. I can't think of you without thinking of God. Others often lead me to Him; but it is, as it were, circulating: you bring me directly into His presence. [Miss Helena S. Bosanquet felt the same way: 'The more I talked to Mrs. Ryan, the more I discovered the glory of God that came from within, and I felt a strong attraction to consider her a friend of my soul.' See Moore's Mrs. Fletcher, p. 29.] Therefore, whoever warns me not to trust you, I cannot restrain myself, for I am clearly convinced that He calls me to it. "I'm your affectionate brother." [19]

 

 

The sea of love is enough

 

Consider, a person who was very happy and good is now less happy than he was. So he thinks, 'I should be happier if I were married.' It's not that feeling

The sea of love is enough to lift

 

To John Valton

BRISTOL, September 5, 1785.

MY DEAR BROTHER, - Neither Sister Brisco nor her husband ever asked me for money. From time to time I gave her a guinea; but, I think, never more than once. We could not give more regularly to the son; but I would give her five pounds for a spoken word. Now she has to work hard to get it. [Thomas Brisco was stationed in Thirsk and was evidently facing financial difficulties.]

Our preachers (I mean many of them) still fail to judge and underestimate each other. Henry Foster is a weak man, but by no means a weak preacher. This has never been challenged to him before at any circuit where I have followed him. He is a solid, judicious man of deep piety.

I'm thinking that her best way is, if someone gives T. Brisco five guineas, I'll reciprocate.

Consider, a person who was very happy and good is now less happy than he was. So he thinks, 'I should be happier if I were married.' It's not that feeling

The sea of love is enough to lift

With drops of creature happiness [Poetical Works, i. 132.]

I am

Your affectionate friend and brother.

To Mr. Valton, at Captain Robinson's house,

On Bridlington Key, Yorkshire. [20]

 

May all the sources of your happiness be in Him

 

Look to Jesus! He is completely adorable; but how little you loved him! May all the sources of your happiness be in Him

 

To Rebecca Ingram

DUBLIN, July 5, 1789.

MY DEAR BECKY, -- You're fooling me. All I want to say is this: it is a general rule for us: 'No one should propose marriage to a woman until he has the consent of her parents.' So you fear where there is no fear. You say, 'Marriage was not proposed [See previous letter.] to you'; And I believe in you. Therefore, it is your wisdom to think as little as possible about the things of the past. You have something better to put your thoughts into practice. The prize and the crown are before you. Look to Jesus! He is completely adorable; but how little you loved him! May all the sources of your happiness be in Him. -- My dear Becky,

With great affection. [21]

 

 

Your joy is yet to come

 

Many of their sufferings, perhaps most of them, have already passed. But your joy is yet to come! Look up, my dear friend, look up! And see your crown before you! A little more, and you will drink of the rivers of pleasure that flow at God's right hand forever

 

LONDON, December 15, 1790.

MY DEAR SISTER, -- There is no reason to doubt the happiness of that child. He feared God, and according to his circumstances works righteousness. This is the essence of religion, according to St. Peter. His soul, therefore, was "dark and secure with God," though it was only under the Jewish dispensation.

When the Son of Man comes in His glory and assigns to every man his own reward, that reward will doubtless be proportionate (1) to our inward holiness, to our likeness to God; (2) to our works; and (3) to our sufferings. Therefore, whatever you suffer over time, you will be an elusive gainer in eternity. Many of their sufferings, perhaps most of them, have already passed. But your joy is yet to come! Look up, my dear friend, look up! And see your crown before you! A little more, and you will drink of the rivers of pleasure that flow at God's right hand forever.

Goodbye! [22]

 

But within a few months that impression of happiness disappeared

 

A few years ago, while you were in Bristol, you received a clear call from God; And you have not been disobedient to the heavenly calling. But in a few months this impression of happiness disappeared, I don't know how. It seems that God was now calling you again.

 

To your niece Sarah Wesley

CITY ROAD, November 15, 1780.

MY DEAR SALLY,-- A few years ago, while you were in Bristol, you received a clear call from God; And you have not been disobedient to the heavenly calling. But in a few months this impression of happiness disappeared, I don't know how. It seems that God was now calling you again. But you have many obstacles. This is just the dangerous time of life. If you don't want to be almost the same Christian, you'll need a lot of courage and patience. Then you can do everything through Christ strengthening you.

You want an extremely pious and sensible friend. I scarcely know any one who is suitable for you on your side of town, except that open and noble creature, Nancy Sharland, 'in whom there is no craftiness.' For now, your best aids will be prayer and reading; perhaps very much in the method set out in one of the Magazines [The Arminian Magazine.]. But you can't follow that without cutting, as it were, a right hand—giving up on a trivial enterprise. Offering any help that is within my reach will always be a pleasure

Your caring uncle. [23]

 

By taking away your expectation of worldly happiness

 

By taking away your expectation of worldly happiness, God has been extremely merciful to you. It is good for you to have seen affliction and felt disappointed in your hope

 

To your niece Sarah Wesley 

WHITEHAVEN, May 28, 1781.

MY DEAR SALLY, -- Here I am, waiting for a ticket to the Isle of Man. I don't know where I'll go from there. But I believe that Providence will direct me to the North of Ireland or to Newcastle-upon-Tyne.

By taking away your expectation of worldly happiness, God has been extremely merciful to you. It is good for you to have seen distress and felt disappointed in your hope. Mr. Waller's move to a better world can be another blessing to you: as well as everything that disconnects us from transitory things and teaches us five in eternity. If we first renounced our will to God in order to be in favor of Him, our case would be hopeless: no, but first you will be conscious of His favor, and then resigned to Him. First, believe it! Christ died for you. He bore his sins. He loves you freely. Come on, get it! His favor! Your peace! Your love! But no money, no price! Leave everything you have and is behind Then everything is ready. Why not now -- I am, my dear Sally,

Your fondly tender.

For Miss Helena. Wesley, in Chesterfield Street,

Marybone, London. [24]

 

Only in God, will never be disappointed

 

If you seek your happiness in God alone, you will never be disappointed: if in anything else, you will certainly do so; for all creatures are broken cisterns

 

To Mr. John Booth, in the Preaching House,

In Keighley, Yorkskire.

To Thomas Broadbent

LONDON, January 29, 1791.

MY DEAR BROTHER, -- You have great reason to praise God for His blessing your labors. Then He will do more and more if you do not get involved with the affairs of this life. If you seek your happiness in God alone, you will never be disappointed: if in anything else, you will certainly do so; for all creatures are broken cisterns. Let your eye be single. Seek one thing—to save your own soul and those who hear you. -- I am, dear Tommy, your affectionate friend and brother. [25]

 

The world has never made anyone happy

 

Now is the time to choose that better part that will never be taken away from you. Now is the time to choose whether you will seek happiness in God or in the world. The world has never made anyone happy, and it is certain that it never will. But God will

 

For Ms. Barton

LONDON, July 5, 1783.

MY DEAR SISTER, -- Last month I made a short trip to Holland, from which I returned yesterday. [He arrived in London about eleven o'clock on the evening of Friday, July 4. For the visit, see Diary, vi. 416-30.] There is a blessed work in The Hague, Amsterdam, Utrecht, and many other major cities; and in their simplicity of spirit and simplicity of dress, the believers compete with the old English Methodists. In affection, they are inferior to no one. It was with extreme difficulty that we managed to get rid of them.

I am glad to hear such a good account from my two little maids. [Mrs. Barton's daughters (see letter of November 6). He was there in May, 1782.] I found a lot of love for them when I was in Beverley. Now is the time to choose that better part that will never be taken away from you. Now is the time to choose whether you will seek happiness in God or in the world. The world has never made anyone happy, and it is certain that it never will. But God wills it. He says,—

Love will obtain from me returns of love;

And none who seeks Me early seeks in vain.

-- I am, with love to Brother Barton, [26]

 

 

Not seeking happiness in marriage

 

 I married because I needed a home, to recover my health; and I recovered. But I didn't seek happiness for it, and I didn't find it. We know that this can be found in the knowledge, enjoyment, and service of God, whether in a married or single state

 

For John Dickins

WHITBY, June 19, 1790.

MY DEAR BROTHER, -- This morning I received yours of April 9th, with Mr. Asbury's bill attached. I was surprised when Lady Huntingdon absolutely forbade any preacher in her Connection to marry. All that can be said about it is, 'If you can be free, use it first.' I married because I needed a home, to recover my health; and I recovered. But I didn't seek happiness for it, and I didn't find it. We know that this can be found in the knowledge, enjoyment, and service of God, whether in a married or single state. But whenever we deny ourselves and take up the cross for Him, the happier we will be both here and in eternity. Let us work in the same way, and in His time He will give us a full reward. -- I am

Your affectionate friend and brother.

To the Rev. John Dickins, Philadelphia. [27]

 

To feel happiness here and in the hereafter

 

Nothing is clearer, according to the simple biblical account, than sanctification, pure love reigning in the heart and life. And nothing is clearer than the need for this to feel happiness here and in the hereafter

 

For Ms. Bennis 

ASHBY, July 27, 1770.

DEAR SISTER,-- Will you find in yourself anything but inadequacy? Otherwise, his salvation would be of works, not of grace. But you are often weary of a bad disease—evil reasoning; which harms both his holiness and his happiness. You want true Christian simplicity, which is in fact the highest wisdom. Nothing is clearer, according to the simple biblical account, than sanctification, pure love reigning in the heart and life. And nothing is clearer than the need for this to feel happiness here and in the hereafter. Check all the reasoning on these basic principles, otherwise you will darken your soul a lot; And keep denying yourself, and taking up your cross, until you

Sink to the height of perfection,

The depth of humble love.

If the preachers of the Waterford Circuit had punctually followed the plan I had laid down, the horse would not have been a problem; But the misfortune is that every idiot is wiser than I am. However, at your desire, I will send a second preacher into the circuit after the Conference; But preachers need to change regularly. It would never be well to let a man sit for six months with a small Society; Soon he would preach himself and them as dead as stones. Your alteration of the circuit to accommodate the poor and dead Clonmel I greatly approve, and I hope that Sister L-- [See letter of June 13] will be a blessing to the few present. I rejoice at the happy launch of Sisters P and B--. [Mrs. Bennis told him that they both died triumphant.] Isn't it worth living for?

Still approach the source by simple faith, and take as much as you want; But don't be lazy in

The vineyard of your Lord.--My dear sister,

With affection. [28]

 

 



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[4] WESLEY, João. Excerpts from John Wesley's diary. Ibid., p. 22.

[5] NASMITH, Ben - https://medium.com/@BNasmith/john-wesley-on-the-love-of-god-shed-abroad-in-our-hearts-9b9c45cf66b3em.

[6] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1771/

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[13] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1767/  

[14] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1789/  

[15] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1776/

[16] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1772/  

[17] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1772/  

[18] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1770/

[19] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1758/

[20] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1785/

[21] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1789/ 

[22] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1790/

[23] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1780/

[24] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1781/

[25] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1791/  

[26] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1783/

[27] https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesleys-letters-1790/  

[28]https://wesley.nnu.edu/john-wesley/the-letters-of-john-wesley/wesley77s-letters-1770/

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